Living Out Loud:
Wendy Cole on Gender, Truth, and Creating Real Connection

with Sue Willoughby

June 3, 2025

What does it take to live fully as yourself—after decades of hiding who you really are? In this moving episode of A Life Worth Being, Sue Willoughby sits down with Wendy Cole, a transgender woman who began her transition at age 67, after more than 45 years of trying to survive a life that never fit. Wendy’s story is one of pain, resilience, and ultimately liberation. From her early childhood awareness of her gender identity, to the medical and societal gaslighting that kept her silent for decades, to finding the courage to step into her truth—this conversation offers deep insight into what it means to live authentically. 💬 In this episode, you’ll hear:

Why gender identity is hardwired—and misunderstood by most of society How decades of suppression shaped Wendy’s mental health and relationships

What finally sparked her transition and self-acceptance

The impact of therapy, spiritual growth, and community

How Wendy is now helping others by educating, speaking, and co-hosting the “Demystifying Transgender” podcast

This episode isn’t just for people within the LGBTQIA+ community—it’s for anyone who wants to better understand identity, inclusion, and what it means to meet someone with empathy instead of assumptions.