“Parenting Your Transgender Teen”

With Cheryl Pankhurst and guest Wendy Cole

March 26, 2025

In this deeply insightful episode of “Parenting Teens: Advice Redefined,” Cheryl sits down with Wendy Cole, a transition mentor, coach, and podcast host, to explore the transformative journey of parenting a transgender teen. Wendy shares her personal story of transitioning at 67 and offers invaluable advice for parents on how to support their teens through this significant life change. Discover how to foster self-love, confidence, and family connection while navigating the complexities of gender identity. Wendy’s mission to humanize the transgender experience and guide families with compassion and clarity shines through in this powerful conversation.

Show Notes:

• Introduction: Cheryl introduces the topic of supporting transgender teens and welcomes Wendy Cole, a transition mentor and coach.
• Wendy’s Journey: Wendy shares her personal story of transitioning at 67 and the challenges she faced growing up.
• Understanding Gender Identity: Wendy explains the difference between gender identity and physical sex, emphasizing that gender is a spectrum.
• Parental Support: Tips for parents on how to respond when their child expresses their gender identity and the importance of unconditional acceptance.
• The Role of Therapy: The significance of therapy for both the child and the parents during the transition process.
• Hormone Therapy and Puberty Blockers: Wendy discusses the options available for teens and the importance of age-appropriate steps.
• The Impact of Rejection: The profound effect of parental rejection on a child’s mental health and self-acceptance.
• Transitioning as a Family: How parents can navigate their own transition process alongside their child.
• Wendy’s Resources: Information about Wendy’s podcast, “Demystifying the Transgender Journey,” and her community for open conversations.