with Cindy Marie

August 2, 2024

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Cindy Marie and I had a great conversation. She asked me to talk about my life. This led into a really relaxed spontaneous conversation rather than a Q&A. There is a lot of good content applicable to many people…

Cindy wrote this description…

Life is Change and About Possibilities
– Wendy Cole –

Today, we’re exploring a topic that’s worth our full attention: living authentically as transgender individuals.

In our new episode, you’ll hear Wendy’s incredible journey of transformation—from facing her true self to embracing her authentic identity. Her story is a powerful example of taking bold steps to find happiness and become her complete self.

I have to admit that my understanding of what it means to be transgender was limited. I didn’t fully grasp the depth of it until Wendy generously shared her experiences. We can better understand and support those on this journey, too.

Wendy Cole is a transition mentor who helps people through major life changes. She focuses on self-acceptance and personal growth, guiding clients in overcoming fears and achieving their goals. Wendy supports transgender individuals, their families, and women entrepreneurs battling imposter syndrome. She now uses her experiences to coach others, offering empathy and practical strategies to help them thrive. Wendy believes that while change can be challenging, it’s a journey worth embracing to live authentically and find happiness.

The Empowering Journey and Lessons You Don’t Want to Miss:

  • Early Self-Awareness: Recognizing one’s true self from a young age.
  • Overcoming Challenges: Dealing with gender identity and societal expectations.
  • Authenticity: The importance of embracing and living as your true self.
  • Courage and Growth: Bravery in making significant life changes and personal growth.
  • Support and Well-being: The value of support, self-acceptance, and positivity in achieving happiness.
Time Stamps:
  • 02:20       Wendy Cole’s Big Leap in Life Transition
  • 09:28       Being a Case Study for Psychiatrists in 1970
  • 12:01        Living by Society’s Norms and Marriage Life
  • 14:23        2014: Seeking Freedom and Starting to Open Up
  • 16:11         The Gift of Working with a Therapist
  • 20:22       2015: Gradually Accepting Her True Self
  • 23:45       Understanding and Living as Transgender
  • 30:36       The Huffington Post Interview
  • 32:14        Public Speaking Highlights
  • 37:08       Why Share Her Story at 67?
  • 39:34       Change Is Inevitable; Growth Is Up to You
  • 49:21        Steps to Help Others in Transition
  • 52:59        Supporting Loved Ones Through Gender Transition
  • 57:33        How Society Influences Gender Transition
  • 1:02:57     How Being Authentic Improved Her Health
  • 1:05:38     You Are Your Own Healer
  • 1:13:15       Staying Optimistic Through Challenges
  • 1:20:39     Where to Connect with Wendy Cole
  • 1:22:06     Message to Her Younger Self
DEEP THINKING:

Let’s take a moment to reflect and take action on:
  • Embrace Your True Self: Reflect on areas where you might not be fully authentic. What steps can you take to align more with your true self, just as Wendy Cole did?
  • Educate and Support: Learn more about the transgender experience and how to support those undergoing similar transitions. How can you help create a more inclusive and understanding environment?
  • Seek Professional Guidance: If you’re navigating a significant change or seeking self-acceptance, consider working with a therapist, mentor, or coach. What resources can assist you on your journey?

Every significant change, whether it’s a gender transition or another personal challenge, offers an opportunity for growth and new possibilities. Let’s approach these transitions with compassion and understanding for yourself and others. Embrace these moments as steps toward a more authentic and fulfilling life, and trust that great things are ahead.